What are some good happy birthday wishes for a friend?

I’m struggling to come up with a short and heartfelt birthday message for my friend that feels genuine and fun. I want it to be 75 characters or less so I can use it in a card or text. Can anyone share some suggestions or examples of birthday wishes they’ve used for friends? I really want my friend to feel appreciated, but I could use some inspiration.

Why is it that trying to write a short, sincere birthday message to a friend feels harder than taking the SATs? Like, I’m out here, staring at a blank card, my mind cleansed of all creative thought except ‘HBD.’ You want it fun, you want it real, and the word limit is basically a tweet (RIP, Twitter). All the inspiration in the world and what do we get? Hallmark-level cringe or “You’re the best, love ya!” Not so unique.

Here’s my self-deprecating take, as someone who’s written way too many awkward-silent birthday cards:

  • “To more coffee dates and dumb laughs. Happy bday, partner in crime!”
  • “Grateful the universe made you. Happiest birthday, you legend.”
  • “Another year older, still not mature. Stay awesome, dude.”
  • “Cheers to chaos, adventure, and a friendship I’d never trade.”
  • “Officially too cool for this card. Happy birthday, superstar!”
  • “Survived another trip around the sun—let’s make this one wilder.”
  • “Can’t imagine this mess of a world without your face in it. HBD!”
  • “You age like fine wine and party like cheap tequila. Never change.”
  • “Still the funniest one I know. Don’t tell my other friends.”
  • “Congrats on being born! Still your #1 fan, sorry not sorry.”

Honestly, if your friend’s anything like mine, they’ll appreciate whatever you write—unless you go ultra cheesy. But hey, if they wanted Shakespeare, they could’ve asked ChatGPT. Just scribble, sign, and add a doodle if you’re panicking. Effort over elegance any day.

I totally hear @viajantedoceu—trying to fit genuine friendship into 75 characters feels like putting jeans on after a big meal: it should work, but somehow it’s awkward and restrictive. Their card lines are funny and solid, but honestly, not everyone’s into the partner-in-crime/legend vibes. Sometimes you just want something a tad softer or more sentimental without all the bells and whistles.

When I’m stuck, I actually go way simpler. Snappy is great, but sometimes getting right to the point with honesty wins. Here are a few combos I’ve used that got more “aww”s than eye rolls, and (bonus) they’re short enough for the stingiest of word limits:

  • “Glad you exist. Hope your day’s as awesome as you are.”
  • “You make life way less boring. Happy b-day to my favorite weirdo!”
  • “Still can’t believe I get to call you my friend. Happy birthday!”
  • “Every year you get cooler. Unfair. Happy b-day!”
  • “Here’s to inside jokes and outside adventures! HBD!”
  • “Thanks for being you. Let’s never grow up. HBD!”

If you’re struggling to make it “fun” but not cringe, here’s an unpopular opinion: nobody really remembers what you write unless it’s wildly emotional or outrageously inappropriate. What they DO remember is the feeling. So write what feels like you—and if words fail you, just toss in a dumb inside joke or shared memory. I once wrote “Remember sophomore year gym class? Never forget. Happy bday!” That’s it. My friend still brings it up.

For real, perfection is overrated. A card, a silly line, and a weird doodle (stick figures count) > any copy/paste job from Pinterest. If all else fails, “Happy birthday! (insert potato drawing here)” never flopped for me.

Don’t overthink it—your friend loves you, not your card-writing prowess.